People seem to want changes in their lives. They want to go through some
But is it even possible for us to transform? Think about the number of times
you have made New Year’s resolutions. Were any of them successful? Many
people simply stop doing them because they know it’s an exercise in futility.
On the other end of the spectrum are people who have overcome major
obstacles and have thrived, often never looking back from their new situations.
Could some of us be wired differently than others?
Most people are capable of transforming their lives. If that weren’t true, you’d
have way fewer success stories in the world. It depends on how badly people
want to make changes. Sometimes, people simply aren’t ready for a change.
Your environment also plays a huge role in determining success in implementing
changes. Keeping yourself involved with negative-thinking people who discourage
change is going to make it very difficult to succeed. If you truly want to transform,
align yourself with people who want to help you succeed.
People are different. Some people can create transformations easily and without
any help or encouragement from others. They have strong wills and keep going
until the change becomes part of their lives. Others need more help and
Your upbringing is probably going to be a factor in how well you adapt to change.
If your parents preferred the status quo, you’d find it difficult to implement changes
at first. Bear in mind, there are plenty of people who break away from the mold of
their families and make changes in spite of their family backgrounds.
The best advice you should follow is never to give up. If something doesn’t work out,
try something else or look at the situation in a different way. Learn from your mistakes
and failures and continue until you are where you want to be. Determination and
persistence are your biggest allies when making your transformations.
Never let anyone stand in your way of something you truly desire. Granted it’s never
easy. If it were everyone would accomplish change.